HAPPINESS

Very interesting read about happiness, the pursuit of a thing that you believe will bring happiness to you, and finally, knowing when to grit toward it vs to quit pursuing it.

#iamgrateful and #iamthankful for my first grit vs quit decision. Working exhaustively for a company when I was 25. Managing 4 people, 2 who were twice my age. And watching those two get laid off, cold heartedly. It’s when I learned that an employer/employee relationship is rarely bi-directional.

It’s when I committed to making sure I did my best to make it mutual with my bosses and with the people who worked for me. And I also made it a point to be in tune to grit vs quit. The people around us can unknowingly make it hard for us to find happiness. They have norms. When to get married. How long to work somewhere. What career choices are acceptable. How we raise our kids to believe.

The most important thing in the pursuit of happiness is to ignore someone else’s norms in pursuit of your best choices (while embracing the social contract.) When you make your decisions your choices you have freedom, and therefore, happiness.

For all that this article states (https://www.forbes.com/…/youre-doing-happy-all…/…)

I first learned this lesson academically while reading Viktor Frankl.

If you haven’t read Man’s Search for Meaning, you should. And if you want happiness, ignore what the world does to you and focus on how you respond to it. Truly our last freedom is how we respond to our circumstances. “everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances”.

Life is great folks. Just felt inspired to react to this article that came through a Google Alert this am. 🙂Also, per FB memories and unknowingly, I made a Frankl reference a year ago to this day in a Post. Weird!

https://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinkruse/2017/11/08/youre-doing-happy-all-wrong-a-harvard-psychologist-weighs-in/?fbclid=IwAR1orJVcClOC11TkjmYwXHHn3M5QqBIG7R-KmPDHvLuq2NM66hX0g6EPt7w&sh=a7c26532469f

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